Here is my Jerry Story, although i have a few, one
recording session sticks out imparticular. I had walked in the rain to the studio from Harwood, getting my morning exercise, so had my rain gear on! Guess i wasn’t thinking, got to Jerry’s little studio room and all we could hear was lots of scratchy rubber sounds, so had to strip to my long john’s which were underneath! Thank God for the little room with the little window, so Jerry and i could be face to face with smiles and privacy for me!!
Always with fondness and love,
alice
This story I have to tell isn’t cute or funny, but is one of many experiences that I have shared with Jerry that have shown to me the great depth and limitless expanse of heart that, for lack of a better term, (perhaps because there are no words that can come even close to describing him) we call Jerry Paquette.
Jerry was one of the founding fathers of the Blues Underground. He was, as well, instrumental in the creation of the “Sidewalk Allstars”, the music school for youth that it was my privilege to run for the last couple of years. The joy that Jerry found in mentoring youth and sharing his vast knowledge of music…….and even more so, the deep pool of unconditional love that is Jerry, was…..and is….my inspiration.
And so…after I had been thoroughly discredited and chained out of the Underground, and those that had taken it from me had spirited away everything that they wanted to their new location, I was told that I could come and get what had been left for me. One of those things was a 50′ snake that Jerry had loaned to me for the P.A. I had been very specific that it belonged to Jerry and could not be taken over by them. So….I phoned Jerry and told him I was going to pick it up and bring it to him. Well….Jerry said “Why don’t I come down there with you?” I told him that it was a very dark and painful thing I was about to do and he said “All the more reason that I should be there!”……..And so, on that final day of the Blues Underground, I walked in there, for the worst day of my life, with two Angels on my shoulders…..One was my wonderful daughter, Megan…..the other, that Angel who walks among us, who we call Jerry Paquette. Jerry stayed with me all day….helping to pack out those scant remains of the dream I once shared with him. When it got too much for me and I started to break down, Jerry took me across the street for a coffee, and was that deep, still pond of love and understanding that brought me back from the brink……and I was able to carry on. Jerry, unlike so many others, had never doubted me for a moment. He did on that day, as he has every day since we first met, stood resolutely by me. Jerry has always been, is now , and will be every day to come, a touchstone in my life. He is the person we all, in our heart of hearts, aspire to be. We aspire…………Jerry simply is.
As you may have guessed, Jerry has, in the short time I’ve known him, become my dearest friend. Yet the term “friend” doesn’t say how I truly feel……..brother might be closer, yet even that does not describe how I feel. Jerry Paquette lives here, with me, in my heart. I feel so blessed to know him……….so honored to call him friend.
Everyone knows and has said so much so beautifully and Jerry you know so well ..and now and because of you ….more and more love rises from us.. Yes I will remember always “love is the only thing”and Yes.. Jer you are so so so loved we are blessed by knowing you and we can all pass that around and around and around and keep the music of the heart playing…for all to hear and even now a picture is being painted and a song more beautiful than we could ever have imagined. Thank you so much Jerry. for contributing so so much to us all. I promise I’ll keep the music playing..stop in anytime! Gerry B
so many stories..simple moments. the serendipity of so many conncetions and meetings, mixes and in syncs that have happened under that raincoast roof…and that hat! hope I can think of just one standout sometime Jer..every time was a standout. Jer…always there…always time for a real good talk.. Ger
aha…you me and bruce playing harps in Saltaire “Jerry fundraiser” you called us the harmonicats!”we captured it too! that was great! a treasure!
I haven’t had the pleasure of becoming a close friend, but I have had the privilege of befriending your children. Though this has been a difficult time for all, trust that your family will be well looked after by the loving community you have helped rally together. The feelings and memories shared are heartfelt and inspiring, and I am sorry that I have few of my own to contribute.
I feel that there is little I can say that you don’t already know; you are a talented and much loved man who has raised a fine family – each one of them shaped by the great person you are and cherished by their friends. A life long exposure to your charm and optimism will ensure that none of your loved ones will be sad forever, and none of them will have to face hard times alone.
I will do what I can to strengthen the already strong support network – weather it is to cook a meal, lend an ear, provide some hugs, or even just a cup coffee.
Rest knowing that your spirit is healthy; it will continue on in the hearts of those who know you, living out that long life full of good music and better friends.
When I was a kid, we’d visit my dad every other weekend. There were a few weekends that dad would take us to see Jerry, Sue, Alyse and Lucas. I remember most, Jerry’s kindness and warmth. Those weekends were few, but people like Jerry stick with you your whole life. A few years ago, I saw Jerry play, and his music is so filled with love and warmth. When Jerry plays, he sends it all out to those who listen. We will always have that to go back to, and remember who he was. There is nobody like you Jerry. Thank you for being my dad’s good friend, and for sharing your music with us.
I had it in my mind to bring my bagpipe band in and record them for a track on a future CD.
Trying to separate the drums and bagpipes was almost impossible and it took hours to get a good take. Also, we were dealing with people who couldn’t wear ear phones and had no idea of how to record.
My favorite moment of the day was when Jerry got down and kissed the ground when the last set of bagpipes left the building!
I remember being in the studio trying to get a guitar track recorded on a song, and I kept screwing it up, take after take after take……..I play by ear,and have had maybe a dozen lessons ever (I have to go on my memory,and record it pretty soon after writing a piece to get it right) and after around 20 – 25 attempts and a whole lotta frustration, I wearily commented that I need another guitar lesson. Jerry then replied ”We ALL need another guitar lesson!!” Thanks Jerry, for your wit,sense of humour,encouragement,and…. PATIENCE!!! (I think we did FINALLY get the take!!).
I first met Jerry when he and Ric Lafontaine, put together this dream of showcasing local island talent. a two night event at the theatre, he did the press, promotion poster and the sound. somehow he found time to perfom at the event here are some youtube from 1999 shows his humour and charm http://www.youtube.com/user/strightstreet#grid/user/2491723FEC831729
(please post them on the blog if you would like.)
After meeting Jerry, he put our trio in the event. We became friends and we recorded our CD at Raincoast Studio. He always had a coffee ready for you in the booth.
In the fall of 1998, I was in the studio with a songwriting friend of mine named Jeff Virtanen. After the session, Jeff told me that while I had been playing the various parts of the song, all the while as it began to come together during recording, Jerry was sitting in his chair humming along….rocking back and forth….head tilted back slightly….eyes closed….and smiling!! Of course, I couldn’t see this for myself being in the booth while recording. A year or so later I was recording a song at the studio, and Jerry and I were sitting in front of the board doing a mix or listening to a finished playback when I happened to look over at Jerry. There he was, humming along….leaning back,rocking in his chair….head tilted back slightly….eyes closed….and smiling!!!! It’s a nice image of you Jerry that I’m always going to remember…..and one that will always put a smile on my face!!!
After hearing about this blog, I thought about what I could post, but it’s been so long that I couldn’t remember much more than the last time we all went to Miracle Beach.
So thanks to my sister, Kirsten, here’s a memory that I now will never forget.
We were all at my family’s house and I was still in elementary school, it was someone’s birthday I think, the Paquettes were over along with other family friends. Somehow Lucas and I (I think it was Lucas) managed to tie Jerry to his chair with a hose like sprinkler.
Jerry was in the middle of telling this story, and no one seemed to notice what Lucas and I were up to. We ran over and turned on the hose. It shocked Jerry and he scrambled for a bit but then realized he was tied to the chair with the hose. Everybody howled. Hands down, best prank ever.
Even though my memories are fading, I will always remember the look on Jerry’s face when we turned that hose on. (High five to Lucas, by the way)
My thoughts are with you, Jerry, Sue, Alyse and Lucas.
I am a retired broadcaster with over 30 years in radio and television. I have had the pleasure of doing interviews with Jerry many times on radio and he appeared on my television show Daybreak many times to promote his records or talk about his recording or his tours. He was a great guest a terrific singer and an amazing guy. He always was promoting others not just himself and I am saddened to hear of his situation. You are one in a million Jerry. My best to you and your family. Bruce Payne
Jerry,
Am so grateful Patrick and I saw you @ the ASTAT Xmas party just before Xmas your light and humor were shining ,as always.
You’ve been on my mind in in my heart daily.
I have such fond memories of so often staying with your family when Alyce and Lucus were young. Your gentle presence and welcoming nature was such a gift. Your cooking talents, gracious hospitality and sharing of your music, were so appreciated. I always felt very welcomed in your home. Over the past 16 years just knowing that you were @ home for the kids when they were growing up gave Sue the ease to be @ work…for years I’ve wanted to give her my job or trade.You’ve been such a support to her over these years of tough transitions. I’m imagining Jerry, how each moment is so very precious and filled with the love of your family and friends around you… I’m seeing you surrounded by comfort and peace. Blessings, hugs, love and deep compassion to you Jerry. Sue .Alyce and Lucus.
Love Marla ,Patrick and Molly
out of all the thousands of people ive been around in the music bus jerry is the kindest nicest guy you could ever meet.weve known each other 6yrs and over that time weve spent countless hrs in his studio.he always let you be creative and if he felt something could be better hed tell you.hes a true gentleman and a class A GUY.he is blessed with a beautiful family and all lovers of music.keep the faith.d f d
Jerry in 1995 & 1996 I worked for an Internet service provider and you would come in to pay your monthly bill. You were patient, positive, and upbeat all the time, and of course your trademark smile greeted us. You were one of the customers who I enjoyed seeing each month. At Christmas, I always look forward to the Ladysmith Light Up, it’s my reason for going to hang out close to the stage to sing along to the carols. You would tough it out cold fingers and all not complaining and get us in the holiday spirit.
I met Alyse at the Jammin for you, she has your beautiful smile, and you can see where she gets her talent.
Just heard this evening that our dear friend Jerry has passed on. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jerry and your beautiful family. I feel privileged to have worked with you – every step of the way in each and every project, I was made to feel so comfortable and so worthy of your time and efforts. You are and were a one in a million kind of person. I will never forget you and will always be grateful that we met and worked together.
To the Paquette Family..
I want to Thank you for your generosity and openess in the sharing of Jerry’s journey…..an incredible inspiration Thank you.! What an incredible legacy of love he leaves.
Blessings to you all
Friend of Jerry… Gerry
whether jerry was being a father a husband a relative the greatest loss to all of us is that he was a true loyal friend and a great friend like jer is very hard to find in this world.an angel has gone to heaven and only the good die young and jerry was the best.my thoughts and prayers go out to all the paquette family.
Thank-you so much to Jerry for his influence he has had on us musicians here on the Island… and deepest sympathy to Susan and his family who loved him and supported him through all those years when he was so busy giving so much of himself to us.
I met Jerry back in 1990 when he and John Capon instructed the very first songwriter’s program I ever signed up for at Malaspina College in Nanaimo. Back then I had a headfull of song ideas that I had shared with very few people. Jerry listened closely to my stuff and worked with me personally to help me get a peek at that ‘next level’ to strive for. In his friendly and open way he inspired me personally to write and play my songs ‘my own way’. He was never too shy to tell me what wasn’t working, nor was he too conservative to point out what he saw as unique and good and worth embracing.
In 2002, he and I made some very special memories in his studio. During the recording of my ‘Edge of a Dream’ album we would sometimes work maniacally into the wee hours just trying to record that ‘special take’… or conjur up that magical hook. Always, when I asked Jerry if he was okay with doing this he would give me that trademark smile of his and say, “Sure, just let me check with my higher power” (a line I’ve used myself a few times!)… the ‘higher power’ was ofcourse his wife Susan. On one occassion Jerry actually helped me develop a character in my song ‘Rockin On the Redline’ when I was stuck in writer’s block. Together we ploughed through it and came up with a new idea for a fictional character. Jerry dubbed him ‘Rounder Sam’. To me this character wasn’t fictional at all. Rounder Sam was infact Jerry himself.
The last time I talked with Jerry was at the 2009 Ladysmith Lightup. Jerry had just finished entertaining all the folks with that great solo act of his. He was always so happy when he picked up his guitar and sang. And he always made other people feel happy. He said to me by the way ‘We’ were just talking about you the other day …. and we figured you’re a really ‘good guy’ Henry (or something like that). I said “Uhhh… gee, thanks Jer”… followed by my curious glare back at him I asked, “And who’s ‘WE’?” Without flinching he smiled and said … ‘Well… , you know, it’s all BS anyways’. Who else would say that but Jerry? We both laughed out loud and just commented, honestly how good it was to see eachother again. Jerry ofcourse sounding ‘as good as new’ during his performance.
To me Jerry was someone who always gave people his time, his sincerity, his heart. He was loved deeply by his family and friends. He sung about simple things, universal things.. like ‘hobo’s’ and ‘pine trees and trains’. When asked for a special favour he was always there to help in his trusting and caring way. I was always at a loss to understand why Jerry had only recorded 1 album (Walkin’ Slow)… and now I understand why. It was because his life wasn’t so much about promoting his own talent… it was about using the special gifts and understandings he had been blessed with, and then giving it away freely to other’s .. people on the receiving end… people like me. That’s where his energy always went!
So, again I would like to somehow say to Jerry’s family just how deeply gratefull I feel to have known him, and for his positive influence in my life. Also, along with many, many others… I too will miss him.
I blogged about my early connections with Jerry, going back to the early 70′s. I have a demo recording I did for Jerry in 1978 before he had a studio. Ten songs that I will try to transfer to a digital form if the tape is still reasonable condition.
My condolences to Susan and the children. Jerry was a wonderful, gentle spirit, a great human being who shared with so many.
Theo Massop
I, along with everyone else who knew Jerry, write this with heavy heart.
I first met Jerry in the early 90′s. I was at the time working at Shaw Cable as a program coordinator and had videotaped one of his performances.
For me, Jerry was a person of incredible talent, honesty, humility. and someone who was always willing to stop and talk no matter how busy he was at the time.
When I was organizing the Shaw Cable Christmas food drive for to the Salvation Army, my first call was to Jerry. I told him what I wanted to do and wondered if he would be interested in hosting the show. Not only did he host the show, he help organize the musical talent to help make the show a resounding success.
(I came across a copy of the show a week ago and will transfer it to DVD)
I happened to run into Jerry about two years ago. We hadn’t seen each other since I left the city over 8 years before, and naturally we stopped and talked. Like we never missed a beat.
My sincere condolences to his family. I am grateful for knowing him.
Let me tell you first that learning the passing of Jerry made my heart cry. We are sending your family our condolences.
My husband and I got married on April 16, 1988. It was a second marriage for both of us. After the ceremony and festivities, some of us decided to end the evening at the Harp & Shamrock Pub, which is now called the Black Bear Pub. This was the first time we saw Jerry perform, but it was not to be the last time because we immediately fell in love with his personality and his style. I must say that he was good looking too! Even if it was the first time we met, he gave us a signed ’45 record as a wedding gift.
The last time we saw Jerry perform was at Maffeo Sutton Park last summer. We decided to approach him to talk a bit. Of course, he didn’t remember April 16, 1988 but it felt good for us to talk with him after so many years. We never thought that it would be the last time that we’d be able to talk to him. He was a very special person. Our daughter now works at the Black Bear Pub, the same pub where we met Jerry for the first time.
Just like you to know Susan, that there are many of us out here from diffrent walks, that are saddend by the passing of a good friend.
Tonight, when I read of Jerrys passing a real tear just rolled down my cheek.
I employed Jerry for over ten year. Every spring he and I would go over the summer weekend schedule. We would figure out what days worked out best for him and what weekends I knew would be the best for the pub.
I always knew when Jerry was on it was going to be a good night . The house changed, the crowd mellowed, the servers sang along quietly as they worked, the cooks poked their heads out occasionally when he got into the groove and you could feel the glow on the floor when he cranked it up on the harmonica. There were nights when I walked up to the house above the pub and I could still hear him going into just one more because the crowd loved him.
There were very few musicians that I worked with that could hold and entertain a crowd like Jerry could, and I knew it. Year after year Jerry came back, never late, aways dependable. I always felt a certain warmth when I saw him climb over the side of our little ferry, that beat up guitar case in hand, a smile on his face, and his hand out to shake.
I knew another good season was about lto begin.
I saw him many times at functions throught the local area. ” Open minds open windows” was one that showed me that Jerry not only had a great musical talent but also a great open genuine feeling for others.
My daughter was one of those that Open minds assisted to come out of a deep dark hole she had fallen into.
She sang on stage with the Open minds choir, and was excited that Jerry and his daughter where actually going to be there too.
After that night, I began to see Jerry in a whole new light. He changed from just a happy go lucky talented muscian, to all of that and to a special person that was giving of himself freely to others in very many ways. I felt then a sense of admiration towards him.
The years of working together are gone now. Time is fading fast for me also, and I feel saddend when good friends pass, but I also know I am fortunate to have had the pleasure to have been able to have had Jerrys hand in mine, looked into that smiling face and said
“Good to see to Jer, its time to go on”
Best to you Susan, Lucas, Alyse
Capt. Bob
Past owner
Dinghy Dock Pub
Protection Island
Nanaimo B.C.
To Susan and family…we just wanted to let you know how much we always enjoyed Jerry’s talent..the many times we saw him at the Dinghy Dock…and helping with Tourism over the years.
Our heartfelt sympathy go out to you at this time.
He will be remebered as hardworking, talented and avery kind man. Kathie and Myron Furuness
I was greeted today by a new friend who, during our conversation gave me the sad news that Jerry had passed. I have many great memories of recording in Jerry’s studio under the stairs, hearing Jerry’s voice in my headphones and smelling fresh made coffee. I am grateful to have know Jerry and even the pleasure of playing 2 New Years Eve shows with him long a ago… I will miss his laugh & smile. Blessings to Susan & family, may his love & memories keep you warm & nurtured.
It’s with tear filled eyes but a warmth within my heart that we had the honor of having Jerry play at our wedding.
We celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary on May 19th, 2010 and were looking back at photos and the video of that special day. We were saying how special it would be to have him at our 25th, but I guess that will be never be…
I read the papers and was knocked over that he had passed away.
The tears flow heavy as we remember the joy he gave us and our guests as he performed with his band song after song. He even let my uncle Paul join in and play his fiddle for a couple Ukrainian songs.
Some humor was when my other uncle Vic gave one of his band members a hair elastic to put his hair back in a pony tail. lol Jerry laughed so hard!
His kind words, brilliant smile and beautiful music will always be remembered by me, my spouse, and the guests of our wedding.
Thank you to Jerry’s family for sharing him with the world. It was an honor when he agreed to do our wedding and he will be missed by so many!!
May you feel his warmth around you in the days/years to come and may the love of all that knew him bring you some comfort and strength.
God Bless you all…
JoAnn & Steve Lawson, Nanaimo, BC
Thanks Jerry, for all you shared with so many through the years. You always seemed to have a natural (though warm and fuzzy) halo around your head… or maybe it was your cap… but we all felt your presence and basked in the glow of your cheeriness at one time or another. Godspeed my friend.
Good afternoo Susan, Lucas, Alyse and the rest of the family.
I attended Jerry’s service and was absolutely overwhelmed by the service. I could not stay any longer with the lumps in my throat.
My partner’s parents lived across the alley from you — they were on Harvey Street — Ken and Evelyn Mullen. Their daughter Karen was not able to attend as she is currently in England on a walking vacation that started on Wednesday.
I just want to pass on deepest condolences from Karen and I — Karen’s parents are no longer with us but I remember them often speaking highly of Jerry and his commitment to his family.
He had an incredible life and I am grateful that I was able to attend the service.
Dear Susan, Lucas, Alyse, and family, and the big ever-present spirit of Jerry,
I feel so priviliged to have reaped the benefits of Jerry’s generosity and kindness in music. I was so pleased when he invited me to play fiddle and clog with him every chance I could at the Dinghy Dock Pub; I think we probably played there about 30 times altogether, over two or three summers. Getting our set lists ready for the Dinghy Dock gig meant that I met you Susan and Alyse (and a tiny bit also you, Lucas) during Jerry’s and my rehearsals in his studio.
Jerry also helped me with many music studio tasks over the years (like transfering old 78 records to CDs). A couple of years ago, Jerry heroically spent at least 16 hours of computer drudgery time resurrecting some “corrupted” if that is the correct term(?) music files that only he, in his generous way, was willing to bother contending with. “Blessed be that kind of Drugery.” so thank you again, Jerry, from the depths of my heart for being “you”.
Thank goodness, he not only worked tirelessly behind the consoles in Raincoast Studio for so many of us islanders, but he also was an amazing performer himself – playing good tunes in his calming and yet lively, charming way – I loved his feet “dancing” over the bass pedals at the Dinghy Dock pub at the same time he also played guitar, and sang or played harmonica.
… I cannot come on June 12th, nor could I be there on June 6th, and I feel I am missing something very important to my own well-being, in not being able to attend (I will be on Prince Edward Island on Jerry’s birthday, June 12th). I will be thinking of you all, and his myriads of friends, and imagining being there.
PS Not that she really needed lessons from me, but for a year or so, I was Alyse’s violin teacher, too… I love your performing style, Alyse, as I’ve watched recently on Youtube – Jerry’s legacy can be a beacon to lead you, his beautiful daughter, ever onwards.
With much love,
Marjorie Cullerne (I think I was still Marjorie Koers when Alyse took those lessons)
I just heard today of Jerry’s passing, I am very sad. I recall, after doing an excellent job of recording and mastering two CDs with me( Rattle the Bag with Celtic Music, and a children’s CD) I told Jerry that I was very interested in recording audio books of VI writers and stories. He was so taken by the project that he recorded voice talent at no charge, and came with me to a couple writers clinic, to tell how it could be done, turning the writers stories into audio books.
Alas I had to leave the area, and this never got off the ground, but I was thrilled by Jerry’s support and enthusiasm. Reading the blogs, I feel this was a very common experience with Jerry, he wanted to make music, support music, listen to music, and really help people realise their dreams. I miss you, Jerry…
Here is my Jerry Story, although i have a few, one
recording session sticks out imparticular. I had walked in the rain to the studio from Harwood, getting my morning exercise, so had my rain gear on! Guess i wasn’t thinking, got to Jerry’s little studio room and all we could hear was lots of scratchy rubber sounds, so had to strip to my long john’s which were underneath! Thank God for the little room with the little window, so Jerry and i could be face to face with smiles and privacy for me!!
Always with fondness and love,
alice
By: Alice and Scott and Camille on April 19, 2010
at 3:42 pm
This story I have to tell isn’t cute or funny, but is one of many experiences that I have shared with Jerry that have shown to me the great depth and limitless expanse of heart that, for lack of a better term, (perhaps because there are no words that can come even close to describing him) we call Jerry Paquette.
Jerry was one of the founding fathers of the Blues Underground. He was, as well, instrumental in the creation of the “Sidewalk Allstars”, the music school for youth that it was my privilege to run for the last couple of years. The joy that Jerry found in mentoring youth and sharing his vast knowledge of music…….and even more so, the deep pool of unconditional love that is Jerry, was…..and is….my inspiration.
And so…after I had been thoroughly discredited and chained out of the Underground, and those that had taken it from me had spirited away everything that they wanted to their new location, I was told that I could come and get what had been left for me. One of those things was a 50′ snake that Jerry had loaned to me for the P.A. I had been very specific that it belonged to Jerry and could not be taken over by them. So….I phoned Jerry and told him I was going to pick it up and bring it to him. Well….Jerry said “Why don’t I come down there with you?” I told him that it was a very dark and painful thing I was about to do and he said “All the more reason that I should be there!”……..And so, on that final day of the Blues Underground, I walked in there, for the worst day of my life, with two Angels on my shoulders…..One was my wonderful daughter, Megan…..the other, that Angel who walks among us, who we call Jerry Paquette. Jerry stayed with me all day….helping to pack out those scant remains of the dream I once shared with him. When it got too much for me and I started to break down, Jerry took me across the street for a coffee, and was that deep, still pond of love and understanding that brought me back from the brink……and I was able to carry on. Jerry, unlike so many others, had never doubted me for a moment. He did on that day, as he has every day since we first met, stood resolutely by me. Jerry has always been, is now , and will be every day to come, a touchstone in my life. He is the person we all, in our heart of hearts, aspire to be. We aspire…………Jerry simply is.
As you may have guessed, Jerry has, in the short time I’ve known him, become my dearest friend. Yet the term “friend” doesn’t say how I truly feel……..brother might be closer, yet even that does not describe how I feel. Jerry Paquette lives here, with me, in my heart. I feel so blessed to know him……….so honored to call him friend.
I love you Jerry, Susan,
Alyse, Lucas
Tom
By: Tom Dodge on April 19, 2010
at 4:31 pm
Everyone knows and has said so much so beautifully and Jerry you know so well ..and now and because of you ….more and more love rises from us.. Yes I will remember always “love is the only thing”and Yes.. Jer you are so so so loved we are blessed by knowing you and we can all pass that around and around and around and keep the music of the heart playing…for all to hear and even now a picture is being painted and a song more beautiful than we could ever have imagined. Thank you so much Jerry. for contributing so so much to us all. I promise I’ll keep the music playing..stop in anytime! Gerry B
By: Gerry Barnum on April 20, 2010
at 12:00 am
so many stories..simple moments. the serendipity of so many conncetions and meetings, mixes and in syncs that have happened under that raincoast roof…and that hat! hope I can think of just one standout sometime Jer..every time was a standout. Jer…always there…always time for a real good talk.. Ger
aha…you me and bruce playing harps in Saltaire “Jerry fundraiser” you called us the harmonicats!”we captured it too! that was great! a treasure!
By: Gerry Barnum on April 20, 2010
at 12:23 am
Dear Jerry,
I haven’t had the pleasure of becoming a close friend, but I have had the privilege of befriending your children. Though this has been a difficult time for all, trust that your family will be well looked after by the loving community you have helped rally together. The feelings and memories shared are heartfelt and inspiring, and I am sorry that I have few of my own to contribute.
I feel that there is little I can say that you don’t already know; you are a talented and much loved man who has raised a fine family – each one of them shaped by the great person you are and cherished by their friends. A life long exposure to your charm and optimism will ensure that none of your loved ones will be sad forever, and none of them will have to face hard times alone.
I will do what I can to strengthen the already strong support network – weather it is to cook a meal, lend an ear, provide some hugs, or even just a cup coffee.
Rest knowing that your spirit is healthy; it will continue on in the hearts of those who know you, living out that long life full of good music and better friends.
Much love,
Katrina
By: Katrina Tutty on April 20, 2010
at 12:59 am
When I was a kid, we’d visit my dad every other weekend. There were a few weekends that dad would take us to see Jerry, Sue, Alyse and Lucas. I remember most, Jerry’s kindness and warmth. Those weekends were few, but people like Jerry stick with you your whole life. A few years ago, I saw Jerry play, and his music is so filled with love and warmth. When Jerry plays, he sends it all out to those who listen. We will always have that to go back to, and remember who he was. There is nobody like you Jerry. Thank you for being my dad’s good friend, and for sharing your music with us.
With love,
Sarah
By: Sarah Lafontaine on April 20, 2010
at 7:07 pm
I had it in my mind to bring my bagpipe band in and record them for a track on a future CD.
Trying to separate the drums and bagpipes was almost impossible and it took hours to get a good take. Also, we were dealing with people who couldn’t wear ear phones and had no idea of how to record.
My favorite moment of the day was when Jerry got down and kissed the ground when the last set of bagpipes left the building!
By: Sandy Jasper on April 21, 2010
at 10:27 am
I remember being in the studio trying to get a guitar track recorded on a song, and I kept screwing it up, take after take after take……..I play by ear,and have had maybe a dozen lessons ever (I have to go on my memory,and record it pretty soon after writing a piece to get it right) and after around 20 – 25 attempts and a whole lotta frustration, I wearily commented that I need another guitar lesson. Jerry then replied ”We ALL need another guitar lesson!!” Thanks Jerry, for your wit,sense of humour,encouragement,and…. PATIENCE!!! (I think we did FINALLY get the take!!).
By: Brad Welch on April 21, 2010
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This was in today’s paper http://www.canada.com/story.html?id=2937985
Jerry Paquette’s legacy his part in this Juno winner.
By: kennty brault on April 22, 2010
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I first met Jerry when he and Ric Lafontaine, put together this dream of showcasing local island talent. a two night event at the theatre, he did the press, promotion poster and the sound. somehow he found time to perfom at the event here are some youtube from 1999 shows his humour and charm
http://www.youtube.com/user/strightstreet#grid/user/2491723FEC831729
(please post them on the blog if you would like.)
After meeting Jerry, he put our trio in the event. We became friends and we recorded our CD at Raincoast Studio. He always had a coffee ready for you in the booth.
love you Jerry
By: kenny brault on April 22, 2010
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In the fall of 1998, I was in the studio with a songwriting friend of mine named Jeff Virtanen. After the session, Jeff told me that while I had been playing the various parts of the song, all the while as it began to come together during recording, Jerry was sitting in his chair humming along….rocking back and forth….head tilted back slightly….eyes closed….and smiling!! Of course, I couldn’t see this for myself being in the booth while recording. A year or so later I was recording a song at the studio, and Jerry and I were sitting in front of the board doing a mix or listening to a finished playback when I happened to look over at Jerry. There he was, humming along….leaning back,rocking in his chair….head tilted back slightly….eyes closed….and smiling!!!! It’s a nice image of you Jerry that I’m always going to remember…..and one that will always put a smile on my face!!!
By: Brad Welch on April 22, 2010
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After hearing about this blog, I thought about what I could post, but it’s been so long that I couldn’t remember much more than the last time we all went to Miracle Beach.
So thanks to my sister, Kirsten, here’s a memory that I now will never forget.
We were all at my family’s house and I was still in elementary school, it was someone’s birthday I think, the Paquettes were over along with other family friends. Somehow Lucas and I (I think it was Lucas) managed to tie Jerry to his chair with a hose like sprinkler.
Jerry was in the middle of telling this story, and no one seemed to notice what Lucas and I were up to. We ran over and turned on the hose. It shocked Jerry and he scrambled for a bit but then realized he was tied to the chair with the hose. Everybody howled. Hands down, best prank ever.
Even though my memories are fading, I will always remember the look on Jerry’s face when we turned that hose on. (High five to Lucas, by the way)
My thoughts are with you, Jerry, Sue, Alyse and Lucas.
Ariane
By: Ariane Seiler on April 22, 2010
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I am a retired broadcaster with over 30 years in radio and television. I have had the pleasure of doing interviews with Jerry many times on radio and he appeared on my television show Daybreak many times to promote his records or talk about his recording or his tours. He was a great guest a terrific singer and an amazing guy. He always was promoting others not just himself and I am saddened to hear of his situation. You are one in a million Jerry. My best to you and your family. Bruce Payne
By: Bruce Payne on April 26, 2010
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Jerry,
Am so grateful Patrick and I saw you @ the ASTAT Xmas party just before Xmas your light and humor were shining ,as always.
You’ve been on my mind in in my heart daily.
I have such fond memories of so often staying with your family when Alyce and Lucus were young. Your gentle presence and welcoming nature was such a gift. Your cooking talents, gracious hospitality and sharing of your music, were so appreciated. I always felt very welcomed in your home. Over the past 16 years just knowing that you were @ home for the kids when they were growing up gave Sue the ease to be @ work…for years I’ve wanted to give her my job or trade.You’ve been such a support to her over these years of tough transitions. I’m imagining Jerry, how each moment is so very precious and filled with the love of your family and friends around you… I’m seeing you surrounded by comfort and peace. Blessings, hugs, love and deep compassion to you Jerry. Sue .Alyce and Lucus.
Love Marla ,Patrick and Molly
By: Marla Jardine on April 27, 2010
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out of all the thousands of people ive been around in the music bus jerry is the kindest nicest guy you could ever meet.weve known each other 6yrs and over that time weve spent countless hrs in his studio.he always let you be creative and if he felt something could be better hed tell you.hes a true gentleman and a class A GUY.he is blessed with a beautiful family and all lovers of music.keep the faith.d f d
By: davidfrankdaniel on May 9, 2010
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Jerry in 1995 & 1996 I worked for an Internet service provider and you would come in to pay your monthly bill. You were patient, positive, and upbeat all the time, and of course your trademark smile greeted us. You were one of the customers who I enjoyed seeing each month. At Christmas, I always look forward to the Ladysmith Light Up, it’s my reason for going to hang out close to the stage to sing along to the carols. You would tough it out cold fingers and all not complaining and get us in the holiday spirit.
I met Alyse at the Jammin for you, she has your beautiful smile, and you can see where she gets her talent.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Rebecca
By: Rebecca Burden on May 9, 2010
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Just heard this evening that our dear friend Jerry has passed on. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jerry and your beautiful family. I feel privileged to have worked with you – every step of the way in each and every project, I was made to feel so comfortable and so worthy of your time and efforts. You are and were a one in a million kind of person. I will never forget you and will always be grateful that we met and worked together.
Much love,
Kathy
By: Kathy Stacey on May 21, 2010
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To the Paquette Family..
I want to Thank you for your generosity and openess in the sharing of Jerry’s journey…..an incredible inspiration Thank you.! What an incredible legacy of love he leaves.
Blessings to you all
Friend of Jerry… Gerry
By: Gerry Barnum on May 22, 2010
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whether jerry was being a father a husband a relative the greatest loss to all of us is that he was a true loyal friend and a great friend like jer is very hard to find in this world.an angel has gone to heaven and only the good die young and jerry was the best.my thoughts and prayers go out to all the paquette family.
By: davidfrankdaniel on May 22, 2010
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Thank-you so much to Jerry for his influence he has had on us musicians here on the Island… and deepest sympathy to Susan and his family who loved him and supported him through all those years when he was so busy giving so much of himself to us.
I met Jerry back in 1990 when he and John Capon instructed the very first songwriter’s program I ever signed up for at Malaspina College in Nanaimo. Back then I had a headfull of song ideas that I had shared with very few people. Jerry listened closely to my stuff and worked with me personally to help me get a peek at that ‘next level’ to strive for. In his friendly and open way he inspired me personally to write and play my songs ‘my own way’. He was never too shy to tell me what wasn’t working, nor was he too conservative to point out what he saw as unique and good and worth embracing.
In 2002, he and I made some very special memories in his studio. During the recording of my ‘Edge of a Dream’ album we would sometimes work maniacally into the wee hours just trying to record that ‘special take’… or conjur up that magical hook. Always, when I asked Jerry if he was okay with doing this he would give me that trademark smile of his and say, “Sure, just let me check with my higher power” (a line I’ve used myself a few times!)… the ‘higher power’ was ofcourse his wife Susan. On one occassion Jerry actually helped me develop a character in my song ‘Rockin On the Redline’ when I was stuck in writer’s block. Together we ploughed through it and came up with a new idea for a fictional character. Jerry dubbed him ‘Rounder Sam’. To me this character wasn’t fictional at all. Rounder Sam was infact Jerry himself.
The last time I talked with Jerry was at the 2009 Ladysmith Lightup. Jerry had just finished entertaining all the folks with that great solo act of his. He was always so happy when he picked up his guitar and sang. And he always made other people feel happy. He said to me by the way ‘We’ were just talking about you the other day …. and we figured you’re a really ‘good guy’ Henry (or something like that). I said “Uhhh… gee, thanks Jer”… followed by my curious glare back at him I asked, “And who’s ‘WE’?” Without flinching he smiled and said … ‘Well… , you know, it’s all BS anyways’. Who else would say that but Jerry? We both laughed out loud and just commented, honestly how good it was to see eachother again. Jerry ofcourse sounding ‘as good as new’ during his performance.
To me Jerry was someone who always gave people his time, his sincerity, his heart. He was loved deeply by his family and friends. He sung about simple things, universal things.. like ‘hobo’s’ and ‘pine trees and trains’. When asked for a special favour he was always there to help in his trusting and caring way. I was always at a loss to understand why Jerry had only recorded 1 album (Walkin’ Slow)… and now I understand why. It was because his life wasn’t so much about promoting his own talent… it was about using the special gifts and understandings he had been blessed with, and then giving it away freely to other’s .. people on the receiving end… people like me. That’s where his energy always went!
So, again I would like to somehow say to Jerry’s family just how deeply gratefull I feel to have known him, and for his positive influence in my life. Also, along with many, many others… I too will miss him.
Henry
By: Henry Locke on May 24, 2010
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I blogged about my early connections with Jerry, going back to the early 70′s. I have a demo recording I did for Jerry in 1978 before he had a studio. Ten songs that I will try to transfer to a digital form if the tape is still reasonable condition.
My condolences to Susan and the children. Jerry was a wonderful, gentle spirit, a great human being who shared with so many.
Theo Massop
By: Theo Massop on May 25, 2010
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I, along with everyone else who knew Jerry, write this with heavy heart.
I first met Jerry in the early 90′s. I was at the time working at Shaw Cable as a program coordinator and had videotaped one of his performances.
For me, Jerry was a person of incredible talent, honesty, humility. and someone who was always willing to stop and talk no matter how busy he was at the time.
When I was organizing the Shaw Cable Christmas food drive for to the Salvation Army, my first call was to Jerry. I told him what I wanted to do and wondered if he would be interested in hosting the show. Not only did he host the show, he help organize the musical talent to help make the show a resounding success.
(I came across a copy of the show a week ago and will transfer it to DVD)
I happened to run into Jerry about two years ago. We hadn’t seen each other since I left the city over 8 years before, and naturally we stopped and talked. Like we never missed a beat.
My sincere condolences to his family. I am grateful for knowing him.
Daniel Myerscough
By: Daniel Myerscough on May 26, 2010
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Let me tell you first that learning the passing of Jerry made my heart cry. We are sending your family our condolences.
My husband and I got married on April 16, 1988. It was a second marriage for both of us. After the ceremony and festivities, some of us decided to end the evening at the Harp & Shamrock Pub, which is now called the Black Bear Pub. This was the first time we saw Jerry perform, but it was not to be the last time because we immediately fell in love with his personality and his style. I must say that he was good looking too! Even if it was the first time we met, he gave us a signed ’45 record as a wedding gift.
The last time we saw Jerry perform was at Maffeo Sutton Park last summer. We decided to approach him to talk a bit. Of course, he didn’t remember April 16, 1988 but it felt good for us to talk with him after so many years. We never thought that it would be the last time that we’d be able to talk to him. He was a very special person. Our daughter now works at the Black Bear Pub, the same pub where we met Jerry for the first time.
By: Carmen P. Joynt on May 27, 2010
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Just like you to know Susan, that there are many of us out here from diffrent walks, that are saddend by the passing of a good friend.
Tonight, when I read of Jerrys passing a real tear just rolled down my cheek.
I employed Jerry for over ten year. Every spring he and I would go over the summer weekend schedule. We would figure out what days worked out best for him and what weekends I knew would be the best for the pub.
I always knew when Jerry was on it was going to be a good night . The house changed, the crowd mellowed, the servers sang along quietly as they worked, the cooks poked their heads out occasionally when he got into the groove and you could feel the glow on the floor when he cranked it up on the harmonica. There were nights when I walked up to the house above the pub and I could still hear him going into just one more because the crowd loved him.
There were very few musicians that I worked with that could hold and entertain a crowd like Jerry could, and I knew it. Year after year Jerry came back, never late, aways dependable. I always felt a certain warmth when I saw him climb over the side of our little ferry, that beat up guitar case in hand, a smile on his face, and his hand out to shake.
I knew another good season was about lto begin.
I saw him many times at functions throught the local area. ” Open minds open windows” was one that showed me that Jerry not only had a great musical talent but also a great open genuine feeling for others.
My daughter was one of those that Open minds assisted to come out of a deep dark hole she had fallen into.
She sang on stage with the Open minds choir, and was excited that Jerry and his daughter where actually going to be there too.
After that night, I began to see Jerry in a whole new light. He changed from just a happy go lucky talented muscian, to all of that and to a special person that was giving of himself freely to others in very many ways. I felt then a sense of admiration towards him.
The years of working together are gone now. Time is fading fast for me also, and I feel saddend when good friends pass, but I also know I am fortunate to have had the pleasure to have been able to have had Jerrys hand in mine, looked into that smiling face and said
“Good to see to Jer, its time to go on”
Best to you Susan, Lucas, Alyse
Capt. Bob
Past owner
Dinghy Dock Pub
Protection Island
Nanaimo B.C.
By: Robert Banerd on May 27, 2010
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To Susan and family…we just wanted to let you know how much we always enjoyed Jerry’s talent..the many times we saw him at the Dinghy Dock…and helping with Tourism over the years.
Our heartfelt sympathy go out to you at this time.
He will be remebered as hardworking, talented and avery kind man. Kathie and Myron Furuness
By: IKathie and Myron on May 28, 2010
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I was greeted today by a new friend who, during our conversation gave me the sad news that Jerry had passed. I have many great memories of recording in Jerry’s studio under the stairs, hearing Jerry’s voice in my headphones and smelling fresh made coffee. I am grateful to have know Jerry and even the pleasure of playing 2 New Years Eve shows with him long a ago… I will miss his laugh & smile. Blessings to Susan & family, may his love & memories keep you warm & nurtured.
Anthony Duke, Duncan, B.C
By: Anthony Duke on May 29, 2010
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It’s with tear filled eyes but a warmth within my heart that we had the honor of having Jerry play at our wedding.
We celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary on May 19th, 2010 and were looking back at photos and the video of that special day. We were saying how special it would be to have him at our 25th, but I guess that will be never be…
I read the papers and was knocked over that he had passed away.
The tears flow heavy as we remember the joy he gave us and our guests as he performed with his band song after song. He even let my uncle Paul join in and play his fiddle for a couple Ukrainian songs.
Some humor was when my other uncle Vic gave one of his band members a hair elastic to put his hair back in a pony tail. lol Jerry laughed so hard!
His kind words, brilliant smile and beautiful music will always be remembered by me, my spouse, and the guests of our wedding.
Thank you to Jerry’s family for sharing him with the world. It was an honor when he agreed to do our wedding and he will be missed by so many!!
May you feel his warmth around you in the days/years to come and may the love of all that knew him bring you some comfort and strength.
God Bless you all…
JoAnn & Steve Lawson, Nanaimo, BC
By: JoAnn Lawson on May 31, 2010
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Thanks Jerry, for all you shared with so many through the years. You always seemed to have a natural (though warm and fuzzy) halo around your head… or maybe it was your cap… but we all felt your presence and basked in the glow of your cheeriness at one time or another. Godspeed my friend.
By: Allen Cottell on June 6, 2010
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Good afternoo Susan, Lucas, Alyse and the rest of the family.
I attended Jerry’s service and was absolutely overwhelmed by the service. I could not stay any longer with the lumps in my throat.
My partner’s parents lived across the alley from you — they were on Harvey Street — Ken and Evelyn Mullen. Their daughter Karen was not able to attend as she is currently in England on a walking vacation that started on Wednesday.
I just want to pass on deepest condolences from Karen and I — Karen’s parents are no longer with us but I remember them often speaking highly of Jerry and his commitment to his family.
He had an incredible life and I am grateful that I was able to attend the service.
Take care and may god bless you all.
Dave Seccombe
By: Dave Seccombe on June 6, 2010
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Dear Susan, Lucas, Alyse, and family, and the big ever-present spirit of Jerry,
I feel so priviliged to have reaped the benefits of Jerry’s generosity and kindness in music. I was so pleased when he invited me to play fiddle and clog with him every chance I could at the Dinghy Dock Pub; I think we probably played there about 30 times altogether, over two or three summers. Getting our set lists ready for the Dinghy Dock gig meant that I met you Susan and Alyse (and a tiny bit also you, Lucas) during Jerry’s and my rehearsals in his studio.
Jerry also helped me with many music studio tasks over the years (like transfering old 78 records to CDs). A couple of years ago, Jerry heroically spent at least 16 hours of computer drudgery time resurrecting some “corrupted” if that is the correct term(?) music files that only he, in his generous way, was willing to bother contending with. “Blessed be that kind of Drugery.” so thank you again, Jerry, from the depths of my heart for being “you”.
Thank goodness, he not only worked tirelessly behind the consoles in Raincoast Studio for so many of us islanders, but he also was an amazing performer himself – playing good tunes in his calming and yet lively, charming way – I loved his feet “dancing” over the bass pedals at the Dinghy Dock pub at the same time he also played guitar, and sang or played harmonica.
… I cannot come on June 12th, nor could I be there on June 6th, and I feel I am missing something very important to my own well-being, in not being able to attend (I will be on Prince Edward Island on Jerry’s birthday, June 12th). I will be thinking of you all, and his myriads of friends, and imagining being there.
PS Not that she really needed lessons from me, but for a year or so, I was Alyse’s violin teacher, too… I love your performing style, Alyse, as I’ve watched recently on Youtube – Jerry’s legacy can be a beacon to lead you, his beautiful daughter, ever onwards.
With much love,
Marjorie Cullerne (I think I was still Marjorie Koers when Alyse took those lessons)
By: Marjorie Cullerne on June 9, 2010
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I just heard today of Jerry’s passing, I am very sad. I recall, after doing an excellent job of recording and mastering two CDs with me( Rattle the Bag with Celtic Music, and a children’s CD) I told Jerry that I was very interested in recording audio books of VI writers and stories. He was so taken by the project that he recorded voice talent at no charge, and came with me to a couple writers clinic, to tell how it could be done, turning the writers stories into audio books.
Alas I had to leave the area, and this never got off the ground, but I was thrilled by Jerry’s support and enthusiasm. Reading the blogs, I feel this was a very common experience with Jerry, he wanted to make music, support music, listen to music, and really help people realise their dreams. I miss you, Jerry…
By: Dawn Cook on June 10, 2010
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